how do you kiss a lady and make her want to kiss you all day?
am sure mark will definitely have a cool answer to this. me am still a small boy!!!
but wait Bella! why are you the one to ask this question? or doesn’t your guy know the right kiss moves? LOL!
sorry about that dear, tell him to read lovepanky or watch ‘the attractive man’ YouTube channel he’ll surprise you with the most exotic kiss you never imagined.
HOW TO KISS A GIRL VERY WELL
1. Use your lips well and don’t avoid teeth collision.
Maybe you think everybody does. But I’ve known a particular kind of kiss that was all dental work, teeth against teeth. And then, of course, the tongue, which in this case was no real thrill at all. That kiss kept getting thinner and harder until I began to feel we were after some sort of bone-crushing, science-fiction jaw lock right there under the street light. No lips, no give-and-take. A kiss demands a little surrender, yes. But there must be some resistance, too. That’s what the lips are for.
2. Touch her lightly;
Use your hands. Delicately. My girlfriend sometimes lays her hand flat on the side of my face when she kisses me. I like that. Or she spreads her fingers on the back of my neck. Very nice. Or locks her hands in mine. This is not distracting, and it isn’t foreplay. Not always. It’s dimensional. There’s a lot going on, because of her hands, her fingertips. Hands open things up.
3. Ask for the kiss but do it with style
Just don’t do it with words. Sure, there’s a measure of permission involved, but it’s not a verbal contract, kissing. A lot of people will tell you it’s polite to ask. Maybe, if the situation calls for it. Other situations let you just take your shot. I trust you know the difference.
4. Show your strength a little.
I once kissed a woman who told me the thing she liked about kissing men was that she could hang on their shoulders. She liked the implication of strength. That’s the only thing I can tell you on that.
It occurs to me that you can’t do anything until you can kiss properly. There are foods you won’t know how to eat, words you won’t know how to say, constellations you will not be able to name. Sexually, you won’t know where to turn. I’m not even sure you can drive a car if you don’t know what it is to kiss. So get it right. Luckily for you, the only authority you’ll ever really need to consult is right there, pressed up against you, lip-to-lip. When you get it right, they will tell you, you will know, and maybe then someone will want to listen to your lessons.
with those tips, am sure you will be able to kiss a girl you like
HOW TO KISS A LADY VERY WELL AND ROMANCE.
The more sexual tension there is between the two of you the more electric that first kiss is going to feel. To build that tension you want to stand close to the girl while holding strong eye contact. Then get physical and make firm (yet gently) contact with her. This could mean putting your hands around her hips, taking her hands, cup the back of her head, or even running your fingers through her hair.
While you’re touching her you don’t want to be up in your head, thinking about how you should move/act next. Instead you want to stay grounded and in your body. So breathe deep into whatever tension you feel in and let that excitement/anxiety stir inside you. Embrace that tension and she’ll begin to feel that excitement more and more. The electricity between you will become so strong that the kiss will feel inevitable.
Some guys make the mistake of waiting for her to make the move – or give some overt signal that leaves no doubt whatsoever that she wants to be kissed. But here’s the thing: if you feel that strong desire to kiss her and she’s standing there, close to you, holding your eye contact – then she knows damn well what you want. She can feel it. And the fact that she’s still there with you is probably the strongest signal she’s going to give. So don’t wait for explicit permission (for her to say something like “you can kiss me now”). Man up, lean in, and go for it.
If the thought of being this direct makes you nervous, remember this: Women will forgive you for being a man, but not for being a wimp. There’s nothing wrong with having desire and acting on it in this way. But if you try to hide or shut that desire down – because you don’t want to “offend” her or come off as “creepy” – you will likely destroy any attraction she may have felt. And you’ll find yourself on a one-way trip to the friend-zone.
For the perfect first kiss you want to be the one who leans in and gets the ball rolling – but don’t go all the way. Give her the chance to respond freely however she wants. She can either lean in and meet you (or close her eyes and let you come to her), or she can pull away. It’s not going to be a perfect first kiss if she doesn’t feel like she had any choice in the matter. And by giving her that chance to pull away, the kiss will be more electric because it’s what you both want.
fundamentals of kissing for romance
No matter how good everything else is you’re never going to get that perfect first kiss if you’ve got funky breathe. So keep some mints handy and make sure she won’t be turned-off by your breath the moment that kiss happens (avoid gum as that might just get in the way).
Some other basics to keep in mind: Breathe through your nose the whole time, and avoid breathing through your mouth. Close your eyes the moment before your lips touch and keep them closed throughout the kiss.
No need to invade her mouth with your tongue the second your lips touch. If you’re going for the perfect first kiss, you don’t want it to be a sloppy mess. So hold back on the tongue at first. But do keep your mouth slightly open to make that possibility available. That way if she wants to slip her tongue into your mouth, she’ll be able to. Or if you feel the desire to take it there, you’ll be able to do so gradually – without taking her completely off-guard.
If you really want to impress a girl with the perfect first kiss make sure you do it when you’re both sober. So many guys rely on “liquid courage” to give them the strength to make their move. But this is a mistake for all kinds of reasons. For one, it can turn into just another drunk, sloppy make out. Second, it leaves a lot of questions the next day. She may wonder “Does he really like me? Or did that kiss only happen because we’ve been drinking?” Heck, she may not even know the reason why she did it. She might be unsure if it was because she actually likes you, or because she was just drunk and maybe feeling a little lonely that night.
So if you want that perfect first kiss, stay sober. That way you’ll both know what it’s about, and won’t look back on it with doubt (or even regret) the next day.
At the end of the day you could mess up every single step of this process. Maybe your breath is a little garlicky from dinner and there just aren’t any mints around. Maybe you wind up bumping noses on the way in. Maybe someone from the outside screams “Get a room!” and jostles you out of the moment. If anything like that happens, roll with it. Because the perfect first kiss doesn’t have to be “perfect”. It’s not so much about where your hand is or getting your lips to touch in exactly the right way. It’s simply about expressing the attraction and connection you feel for one another.
So if anything goes “wrong” during this process, embrace it. There’s often a lot of juice and excitement in imperfect moments anyway. If everything went “by the book” and was “fundamentally perfect” the kiss could wind up feeling cold, robotic and even boring. So while keeping the tips above in mind, don’t hold too tightly to the idea that everything needs to go a certain way. After all, any mistakes and missteps could wind up making the moment that much more memorable.
with these tips you can kiss and romance a lady and turn her on almost immediately. you can add some of your personal tactics to see where the kiss takes you
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